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There will be a time, especially in girl’s life, that when it comes to entering a relationship self denial is definitely present. For the 2000 film Bounce, Leigh Nash of Sixpense none the richer sang the theme song Need to be next to you. 

Perfect for the mending hearts and those that wishes to love again (and also for those who can’t seem to get over past loves that hinders their bloom for another—geez!!!) Leigh Nash’s song, plus the movie, is a good treat.

It may be last 2000 yet this feel good music which incorporates good lyrics and melody still can get that heart beat racing for romance. We have all given ourselves the denial to get into that loving feeling. At times past experiences in family or former flings get us into thinking that enough is enough yet let’s face it: this song can definitely change a person’s mind.

A good song is usually composed of truth: this song is what I would say a wake up for those who have locked themselves from reality (and that include me) that there is still something better than the past. A background check on every person always has this experience and everyone who has gone through it and passed with flying colors will surely agree that denying oneself the right to be happy with the person who has made them grow.

The song was composed by American songwriter, Dianne Warrem, for Leigh Nash’s debut single. It was recorded while Leigh was still in the mainstream of her band Sixpense None the Richer whose popular songs include Kiss Me and She’s All That. The song was included in the soundtrack of Don Roos’ 2000 film Bounce which fits perfectly well to the story.

It talks about giving oneself a chance to love again, to feel alive, and to be real. And even if you really can’t relate to it, the feel-good beat of the music is something worth listening to anyway. There’s no denying that it is a people finder — searching for those who have lost their courage on loving and risking.

The internet is a huge development for humankind if I may say so. It’s really some sort of a milestone for us to have this kind of technology that aids us in more ways than one. There’s business and leisure on the net, education and shopping, and of course networking sites that help you keep in touch with loved ones, friends and relatives.

Years before we would not have imagined that this kind of “thing” would be possible. But the human brain apparently keeps evolving and continued to search for a perfect tool to do lots of things for them in a very convenient manner. Now we can do almost anything we could ever imagine on the internet.

I say, those who have thought of this concept must be real geniuses. I mean how can one be so out in the open searching on those huge search engines while having the luxury of keeping their privacy? It’s really good they have thought of their mini-background checks by way of asking for a password of some sort.  Otherwise lots of people would really get annoyed at a mess or a disaster  that’s just waiting to happen with all the unorganized stuff piling up on their net space let alone keep track of information because there would be no way to identify who-owns-what. And just think, the internet keeps expanding and branching out to cater to different needs and to various groups.

For instance, business transacted on the internet could be quite stressful in that one is not fully aware of what he is getting himself into. So aside from the client doing some background check on the company he is planning to have a transaction with, the company will, in turn, have a thorough assessment on that particular client as well. So devising a method for security on both client and service-provider is a genius thing to do. So security on the net isn’t just something you have for yourself but something that you also impart with others and perhaps, this is how trust is actually gained on the internet. This is not only true for big-time transactions but with even the simplest interactions made via the internet such as the networking sites that are becoming so popular and so widely-used as of today and online shopping (which is also a better option for some in contrast with the real feat where one has to really walk and go through several aisles to pick an item. Who would, after all, not want to just sit in the comfort of their own homes while doing their shopping with just their fingers?)

So we see the internet has really become a household item (well at least for those who can afford to have internet in their homes). It is fast becoming a necessity for people of varying ages and occupations—kids, young adults, young professionals, elderly people, housewives, fathers, celebrities, just name it and they would most probably than not, have good use for the internet. And we continue to look out for its latest development like parents anticipating a milestone in their kids’ lives. Who knows, we might, once again, be left in awe at one of man’s greatest achievement that is the internet.

Trust is not given overnight. At these times, it is difficult to easily trust someone because of the rampant atrocities in the society. You would never know that you can be under the claws of these predators that are planning to strip you off of your properties and other precious belongings.

There are numerous reports these days about people crying for help because their loved ones were taken away by someone who they thought are their friends. The sad part of being a victim of fraud is that you end up being helpless. It is only you who should be blamed because you easily give your trust someone you without doing any background check.

Potential criminals are roaming In The Streets and you have no tool on how you can identify them from among the thousands of people you encounter in a day. They may seem nice and very accommodating but you have no way of telling what goes on in their minds. And you, who will be easily swayed by their theatrics and flowery words, will instantly put your trust to that someone. And before you know it, you are another victim of their scheme and other criminal acts. All that's left for you to do is to ask for the help of the authorities who seem so powerless in solving these kinds of crimes. You will now be in addition to the growing statistics of fraud.

Remember that criminals are like politicians. They will do whatever it takes to get your trust and in the end, they will get all things that you hold precious. Take a look at the ads of these politicians. They seem to be very genuine in their quest for the country's Reformed But behind all these, they only want to acquire power and suck all the country's wealth. The lesson here is that you now play vigilant in protecting your properties and loved ones from people who design these criminal acts. You will be the only one who will suffer if you let them into your life. Thus, a background check is a big plus against any criminal act.

Once upon a time women knew very little of the works of courtship. The gentlemen were only very aware of how women flowed with glorious beauty which left them enticed for the longest moment. Emotions for each one are dealt delicately with bribes of a thousand of lovely flowers, colors that favor the cunning eyes of his lover. Some are rather ravished, blooming with intensity as each day passes when one is away from the other. However, a young love elicits a shared love solemn and furious that often diminishes a person’s sense of reason. It is almost a defying act played and performed in front of a mocking crowed but still the performer would finish off with a loud approving applause.  It may be likely that once upon a time all in love are dealt with virgin emotions filled with intensity, minus the reason, conventional rites and background check.

Moving on with time and proper decorum that often changes century after centuries, the love affair of man and woman remains a temper to be tamed. Neither of both parties’ gave enough attention to do a background check whether it’s for the others advantage or disadvantage to foresee a favorable future in the relationship. It wouldn’t hurt to snoop around to check if your man or woman is emotionally stable or that they are certainly equipped for marriage. Nowadays, there is a growing population of failing marriages because a couple are said to be incompatible. Finally, this failure to coexist ends in divorce, separation, battle with custody and the fight off of the infamous irreconcilable differences remarks.

In the past women were always in love with their men and men were always delighted for the attention. Both lived well even if what they have was only romance. Paper and ink was an insignificant creation. Love was a thrilling sensation among lovers and couples it never fails to excite other venturing observers. Marriage is an ancient tradition of two people that were thrilled by the shrilling pull of romance and companionship.